“You deserve to heal and get better for yourself before you heal for others. You deserve to find the things that make you happy and pursue them. You deserve to be loved in a way that doesn’t make you afraid of opening up or being vulnerable or trusting someone with your heart. You deserve to find inner peace because you’ve been through enough and you’ve fought the toughest battles and gone into wars with yourself and others to learn how to get better, to learn what you truly deserve and to finally understand that sometimes the biggest lessons come from the hardest battles and sometimes the best in you comes out after you’ve been through the worst.
01 “Nothing is better than having someone as your lover and your best friend.”
02 “I’m not saying that at some point love isn’t staying up until 2 am for silly phone calls or stealing kisses when you least expect it, or instantly falling for each other’s favourite songs because it is, or at least that’s what the lead up to it feels like, but real love, is so much more. It’s going out at 12 am to get something to eat for your wife who can’t get out of bed, it’s listening to them as they explode with vulnerability on your living room couch talking about how they were only so young when their parents did them wrong. it’s remembering how someone likes their coffee in the morning without asking—without ever asking, it’s visiting someone in the hospital knowing the last thing you want to do is see them in that condition, it’s wanting to be with that person despite everything, the future, the past, and everything in between, it’s the intimate things that you don’t even realize involve such intimacy, but they do, in secret, like the pinky promises you two made behind your back, to love one another for always, in the time you thought you were in love, when you were actually just on your way to it.”
03 “How wonderful it is, to be silent with someone.”
04 When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.
05 “Go and love someone exactly as they are. And then watch how quickly they transform into the greatest, truest version of themselves. When one feels seen and appreciated in their own essence, one is instantly empowered.”
06 “you deserve to be loved without having to hide the parts of yourself that you think are unlovable.”
07 You don’t meet people by accident there’s always a reason. A lesson or a blessing.
08 “You meet thousands of people and none of them really touch you. And then you meet one person and your life is changed forever.”
09 “Stay single until you meet the person who loves the deeper side of you.”
10 In French, you don’t really say “I miss you”, you say “Tu me manques” which means “You are missing from me”
11 How beautiful to find a heart that loves you, without asking for anything but to be okay.
12 “The only person who deserves to be in your life is the one who treats you with kindness, love, and respect.”
13 But the most beautiful things in life are just not things. They’re people and places, memories and pictures. They’re feeling moments and smiles and laughter.
14 “May you have at least one person who will love you when you ain’t so lovable. When you’re anxious and nervous. When you mistreat others. When you no longer crack jokes and have no more stories to tell.”
15 “a relationship without trust is like a phone without a service, and what do you do with a phone without a service? you play games.”
16 “You will always be something to me. Something special. Something I can’t explain. And when people come at me to ask who you are, I won’t tell them everything I know. I want to keep you for myself. I’m selfless, but when it comes to you, everything changes. I don’t know how it happened. I can’t even look at you without falling in love all over again. Like how I fell when I knew you for the first time. It’s something extraordinary. If I have a definition of magical, this is it. It brings me to another world, where only the two of us matter.”
17 “To me, one of the most heartwarming blessings in this world is a quality conversation with a kind-hearted human being who shows you their vulnerability and allows you to share yours, ending up feeling safe, connected, validated, recharged, and ready to face the world again. Thank you to those who allow me and others this kind of space.”
18 “one day, you realized that there are some people you’ll never see again. At least, not in the same way.”
19 “You make me feel good inside, as if nothing really matters, not the future, not the past, just now and right now it all feels too lovely. Like two people that are meant to be; meeting for the very first time.”
20 Never hide ur bad side to make anyone stay, show ur bad side and see who can stay.
21 If you have at least one person supporting you, you’re blessed.
22 People ask what’s the secret behind relationships.
Someone said confidently ” Love ” and that was their only response.
The other said ” Well love makes the relationship a happy place “
But you know what makes a relationship strong, you know what really makes it live for years?
It’s trust. It’s when you sleep knowing that someone is there no matter what.
It’s loyalty. No matter the people they meet. Deep inside, they still see you as the most beautiful.
It’s communication… it’s when you both know how to let it out without being misjudged or misunderstood.
It compromises.. when each one of you is trying to please the other even if it’s not what pleases them.
Love is important.
But it’s not what makes a relationship live long.